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If I could offer a young person advice about anything it would be do NOT make life decisions based on your boyfriend or girlfriend. Girls especially. Do NOT stay close to home for him, do not skip opportunities to travel or study abroad, do not pick a safe college to be with him. Expand your horizons. Broaden your own life. He is not the world.




Lisa Lindvay


the funniest thing in twilight is when bella thinks that the guy she has a crush on might be a vampire so she goes home and just googles the word “vampire” it’s ridiculous but also exactly what I would do in that situation


Manish Arora Spring / Summer 2015

"Let someone love you just the way you are – as flawed as you might be, as unattractive as you sometimes feel, and as unaccomplished as you think you are. To believe that you must hide all the parts of you that are broken, out of fear that someone else is incapable of loving what is less than perfect, is to believe that sunlight is incapable of entering a broken window and illuminating a dark room." - Marc Hack (via jdvlla)

Anonymous asked:
i reALLY like this guy but a LOT of other girls like him, i'm really good friends with him and he doesn't know i like him. can you give me advice?


since you’re good friends with him you should already have an idea of what he likes and dislikes, which gives you a definite advantage over anyone else. people tend to forget just how important communication actually is. i would honestly suggest just talking to him. but before you say a single word to him, and this is where you might have your work cut out for you, you need to find each and every single girl who might have even a shred of romantic feeling for him and destroy them. frame them for murders, snipe them, make it look like accidents i don’t care. variety is key and it’s most important to ensure none of it ever traces back to you. you make sure it’s someone else getting their hands dirty at all costs and you make sure you have rock solid alibis for each and every single one. go out with friends, take your parents out to dinner, spend five hours in a guitar center it doesn’t matter, as long as there is a person or a camera that can make sure you were nowhere near any incident that occurred. if every player on the opposing team logs out, then you absolutely win by default, and assuming you display the correct amount of patience everything will go according to plan. have fun


Ulrika Sparre


Ulrika Sparre


Forever Yours, Empty.


Forever Yours, Empty.

"…and then I felt a great, clear, violent pain — so passionate that it bordered on happiness." - Simone de Beauvoir, from Letters To Sartre (via violentwavesofemotion)

"Women hear it all the time from men. “You’re overreacting,” we tell them. “Don’t worry about it so much, you’re over-thinking it.” “Don’t be so sensitive.” “Don’t be crazy.” It’s a form of gaslighting — telling women that their feelings are just wrong, that they don’t have the right to feel the way that they do. Minimizing somebody else’s feelings is a way of controlling them. If they no longer trust their own feelings and instincts, they come to rely on someone else to tell them how they’re supposed to feel." - Men really need to stop calling women crazy (via 5000letters)


The huge amount of pressure on young girls to let their boyfriends get away with everything and not to stand up for themselves, lest they stop being a ‘chill girlfriend’ and instead become a horrible, controlling harpy is such bullshit.

Stop teaching young girls that demanding to be treated with respect and courtesy makes them shrill, over-emotional, or unworthy of listening to.